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夜读 | 做到这几点，孩子会越来越好

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                     一起遇见更美好的自己。
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   教育孩子，不只是老师的事，更是父母的事。
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   父母用心管教，孩子才有好习惯。
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教育就是培养好习惯，而孩子好习惯的培养，靠的不是老师的叮嘱，而是父母细心引导和用心管教。
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   一个习惯的形成，通常要花费几个月甚至更长的时间，父母要一直陪伴。
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   父母正确教养，孩子才有好品行。
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孩子的品行是家庭教育的综合体现，孩子生来是一张白纸，父母是最初的执笔之人，孩子究竟长成什么样子，关键在于父母给予了孩子什么样的教养。
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父母正确的教养是孩子好品行的来源，能让孩子受益终生，也是孩子行走人世间的底气。
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      父母做好榜样，孩子才懂得自律。
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   孩子其实是一个聪明的观察者，父母态度上的懈怠，行为上的不自律，很容易影响到孩子面对事情时的状态。
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   身为父母，想要让孩子自律，自己就不能袖手旁观，不仅要做孩子成长的见证者，更要做孩子成长的参与者，以身作则的示范者。
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   有人曾说：“孩子最终成为怎样的人，主要取决于他从第一个教育者那里所受到的爱的质量、陪伴和示范榜样。”
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   千万别做个只会讲道理要求孩子的父母，教育归根到底，就是父母要以身作则。
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      父母舍得放手，孩子才有责任感。
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   父母天生对孩子有一种责任感，但过度负责的父母，可能会剥夺孩子为自己负责的机会，导致孩子独立性、自觉性和自制力发展缓慢，事事都要依赖父母。
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   父母要学会对孩子放手，让孩子从小学会对自己负责，对他人负责，孩子只有体会到肩膀上的压力和重量，才能真正担起责任。
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   父母耐心陪伴，孩子才有幸福感。
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一说到陪伴这个话题，很多父母也很无奈，毕竟父母需要挣钱养家，的确有很多不得已。
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但我们要明白，所谓陪伴，并不是说父母要一天24小时陪着孩子，而是要懂得把日常里零碎的时间拼凑起来，见缝插针地给予孩子高质量的陪伴。
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当父母和孩子都明白，在固定的时间段我们彼此会有最好的陪伴和相处，那么在规律的陪伴后，孩子们会寻找到最好的状态。
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孩子们需要知道的是，他们对父母很重要，总是被爱围绕。在爱中成长起来的孩子，他们被足够的爱滋养，生活会更从容淡定。
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父母高质量的陪伴，是孩子幸福感的来源。
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让我们与孩子一起成长，也一起遇见更美好的自己。
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不是我不小心 发表于 2023-3-24 15:04:43

重点，说得很对

hei 发表于 2023-3-23 08:45:08

父母是孩子的第一任老师

望秋发表于 2023-3-23 07:27:07

言传身教

张新瑶 发表于 2023-3-23 03:22:43

育子女不教，父之过！社会环竞风俗赌博娱乐主时，导致父无脑混浪赌时成天，…误导子女…叛逆时间，…游戏网站霸力过暴，父母有自律责任，更应教育行为习惯更正，…我只议我家烦心事…

也许～ 发表于 2023-3-22 23:14:50

说的容易

繁话似锦 发表于 2023-3-22 21:41:30

说起来容易做起来难

汪先森 发表于 2023-3-22 21:04:42

好

知足长乐 发表于 2023-3-22 22:42:45

。

鼓鼓发表于 2023-3-23 00:10:16

嗯

。zy 发表于 2023-3-23 05:45:05

是的

星芒发表于 2023-3-23 06:23:19

好

老坎客栈 发表于 2023-3-23 06:54:02

学习

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