【夜读】一个人真正的成熟，从改变自己开始-洪雅快报-洪雅论坛

洪雅夜读 发表于 2022-7-11 22:01:17

【夜读】一个人真正的成熟，从改变自己开始

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世界在变，周围环境在变，只有学会改变，才能成长成熟。
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今晚的夜读，和你分享
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改变自己的
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“钥匙”，从现在开始，掌控好自己的人生。
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         听过一句话：“墙，推倒了就是门；心，敞开了就是路。”很多时候，我们遇事举步维艰，不是你不够努力，而是思维方式需要转变。
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         人生总有高低起伏，当一些人遇挫折自暴自弃时，真正的强者能转变思维，破局而出。善于转变自己的思维，有时比努力更重要。思维对了，往往能事半功倍，人生也就随之改变。
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         改变思维，摆脱一时困境，放大格局，机遇无处不在。
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                     改变心态
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         很多时候，真正决定人生境遇的，不是外界的风雨，而是你的心态。
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         心态不好的人，总妄自菲薄盯紧眼前的苦痛，任由挫败感吞噬自己。
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         而心态好的人，往往善于与自己和解，不和生活较劲，把生活过得充实而快乐。
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         ?境无好坏，唯心所造。
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         人生一世，总有不遂人意、事与愿违的时候，
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         学会用乐观的心态去面对烦恼，不和自己盲目较劲，是每个成年人的必修课。
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         改变心态，任凭境随心转，看淡看开，自此天地自宽。
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                     改变位置
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      <span style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">
         婚姻里，丈夫希望妻子温柔贤惠，妻子希望丈夫有责任心；职场里，员工希望老板别空谈理想，老板希望员工积极上进；出租车上，乘客埋怨司机开得太慢，司机吐槽道路太堵……
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         谁都没有错，只是不懂换位而已。
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         站在自己的立场，往往看到的只是片面；站在自己的角度，往往无法真正解决问题。懂得适时转变位置，成为一束照亮别人的光，也才能被他人照耀。
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         改变位置，学会换位思考，将心比心，人生豁然开朗。
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                     改变方向
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         网上曾经有句很火的话：“自己选的路，跪着也要走完。”
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         它鼓励人们不撞南墙不回头，选择了一条路就要一直走到黑。事实上，这样做的结果往往只有极少数人能成功，大多数人可能会走进死胡同，进退两难。
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      <span style="margin: 0px;padding: 0px;font-size: 18px;text-indent: 2em;">
         “明智的放弃，胜过盲目的执着。”人生从来不是单选题，盲目执着到底未必就是最好的选择。很多时候，及时转变方向，方能跳出眼前的局限，打开人生的新局面。
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         改变方向，及时放下止损，择道而行，方有柳暗花明。
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江容发表于 2022-7-12 10:52:52

和自己和解。

汪先森 发表于 2022-7-12 08:56:57

嗯嗯

道友，请留步。 发表于 2022-7-12 07:22:47

，，，

zcj5321 发表于 2022-7-12 07:15:24

悟

恒爱发表于 2022-7-12 07:10:38

哦

我爱大洪雅 发表于 2022-7-12 06:18:33

成熟了就快乐吗？熟透了还是不安逸…

GuShao 发表于 2022-7-12 02:06:02

。

書香发表于 2022-7-12 00:24:11

好

吻舞双全 发表于 2022-7-12 00:21:57

嗯

知足长乐 发表于 2022-7-12 00:05:10

对

hei 发表于 2022-7-11 23:36:01

认真努力做一个成熟的人

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【夜读】一个人真正的成熟，从改变自己开始