【夜读】真正的教养，是装不出来的
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教养是人前的约束，更是人后的自律
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什么是真正的教养？看过这样一个很有意思的实验：实验人员在街角安装了摄像头，每个走过的人都很安静优雅，甚至还会捡起地上的垃圾；可当监控被收走后，地上多了不少的垃圾。
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在人前，每个人都会习惯性地展示出自己美好的一面，但真正的教养是装不出来的，它是人前的约束，更是人后的自律。最高级的教养，就是恰到好处的让人舒心，无需提醒的让人放心。
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有教养的人懂得一视同仁、换位思考
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看一个人是不是真的有教养，不要看他如何对待比自己身份高的人，而要看他如何对待身边的每一个人。
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一个有教养的人，不会心安理得地指使清洁阿姨，不会对外卖小哥颐指气使，而是懂得换位思考，发自内心地尊重、体谅和友爱他人。这样的人，才能获得别人长久的青睐和信任。
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真正的教养，都藏在生活的细节里
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教养说起来很大，但其实就藏在日常生活的细节里：
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尊重别人的不同，哪怕别人的行为你完全不理解；
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跟人一起，不要总说自己独特的一面，克制自己的优越感；
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不打听别人的私事，更不要四处宣扬别人的私事；
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与人交往时不要太情绪化，不要一不高兴就摆出一张臭脸；
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问别人一个问题，如果别人不愿意回答，不要刨根问底；
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尊重不同的喜好，不随意评价别人喜欢的东西；
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与人沟通时，不要随意打断别人说话，也不要面无表情、眼神游离；
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注意保持社交距离，不要随便拍人肩膀，不要过于贴近别人身体；
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别人发给你的微信或短信，尽量都回复，晚一点也没有关系；
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服务员、快递员、外卖员为你提供服务时，请说一声谢谢。
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你还知道哪些藏在细节里的教养，欢迎留言
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