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夜读 | 到了一定年纪，拼的是扛事能力和自愈能力

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到了一定年纪，发现肩上的责任越来越重、遇到的事情越来越多。
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到最后，拼的往往是一个人的扛事能力和自愈能力。
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谁能扛得住生活的刁难，谁能够在一地鸡毛的生活中，心中依然能开出一朵花，便是生活的胜利者。
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做一个能扛事儿的人，首先是遇事不乱，不随便发脾气。
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成年人面对各种事情千头万绪，家庭、工作都需要统筹兼顾，只有保持稳定的情绪、冷静的头脑，才能不乱于心，洞察全局，审时度势，从而做出正确的决断。
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所以，保持情绪稳定，是一个能扛事儿的人所需要的必修课。
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   情绪失控、发脾气，不但解决不了问题，反而让自己乱了，从而判断失误，做出错误的决定，让事情变得越来越糟。
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智慧，源于沉静的心态。
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那些优秀的人物，莫不是磨掉了自己的浮躁，能够遇事处变不惊，才有了一次次的正确决断。
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处事速不如思，便不如当，用意不如平心。
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所以，做一个越来越沉静的人，面对生活很多突发的情况，方能不乱于心、从容应对。
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   随着年龄的增长，很多人都会经历工作的难、复杂的人际关系处理、自己工作的倦怠期、瓶颈期，压力倍增。
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   仿佛问题叠着问题，永不停歇。
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      没有谁是顺风顺水、一路坦途的，只有逆流而上，唯有难中坚守，才能柳暗花明又一村。
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         生命中那些想要的礼物都包装在一个叫作磨难的盒子里，谁坚持住了，谁才能收到。
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   逆境磨练心境，困境启迪智慧。
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   那些优秀人生的背后，莫不都是苦行僧般的修行与坚持，和逆风而上的勇气与坚韧。
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   那些难走的路，背后是你成长的路。
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   挫折，更是一本存折。
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   做一个越来越有韧性的人，记住好事多磨。
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   名家画廊｜
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   金晓海
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一颗包容、平和的心，是生活的一束阳光。
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生活，总免不了柴米油盐、锅碗瓢盆的碰撞，一不小心的一地鸡毛。
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逃避解决不了问题，唯有接受、修炼自己的心境，心有诗意，万物皆美。
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人生，拼的是心态。
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   幸福从来不是从天上掉下来的，而是从自己心里长出来的。
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那些总能够生活得游刃有余、从容恬然的人，不是因为生活中没有一点杂事，不是因为周围都是和谐的声音，而是因为有一颗包容平和、知足感恩的心。
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世上没有绝望的处境，只有对处境绝望的人。
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你若知足感恩多一点，烦心的事就少了一点。你若平和包容多一点，抱怨的事就少了一点。
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   心小了，事就大了。心大了，事就小了。
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这个世界的模样，取决于你的目光。
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你生活的样子，取决于你的心态。
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做一个能扛事儿的人，努力修炼自己的沉静力、抗挫力、包容力。保持情绪稳定，方能静生慧，慧至从容。
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于难中坚守，人生便能长风破浪会有时。
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拥有一个好心态，你的生活便能处处可爱。
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不是我不小心 发表于 2022-4-9 15:07:34

好好休息

汪先森 发表于 2022-4-9 10:08:38

是滴

馨雪发表于 2022-4-9 07:26:39

是的

张新瑶 发表于 2022-4-9 07:03:55

好思想，好行为，遇事警慎，包容，不怒！对工作生活中的困难要坚韧，有益的要坚持，遇不好的言行要放弃，心境纯净，

書香发表于 2022-4-9 05:09:42

哦

娅娅发表于 2022-4-9 08:29:46

是的

道友，请留步。 发表于 2022-4-9 09:06:59

，，，

江容发表于 2022-4-9 09:47:31

当年龄到了这个阶段，自然整个世界都安静了。

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