夜读丨到了一定年龄，低配生活，高配灵魂
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“简朴的生活、高贵的灵魂，是人生的至高境界。”
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年轻时，我们总以为人生就是要追求“高配置”的生活，追求豪华的车子、高档的房子、体面的工作......
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渐渐地，聪明的人懂得：如果过于追求物质的“高配”，身体累，心更累；适当减减配置，人生才能活得自在从容。
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看过一句话：“拥有就是被拥有。”意思是说，一旦我们拥有了某样东西，从那一刻起，我们也被这个东西所拥有。
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比如，你拥有了一辆汽车，你同时被这辆汽车拥有，你常担心它被剐蹭、被偷，你要给它买保险、做保养。
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比如，你拥有了一件奢侈品衣服，你同时也被这件衣服拥有，脏了要洗、皱了要烫、破了要修。
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我们拥有的东西越多，需要担心和关注的外部事物就越多。
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相反，如果我们在物质上追求简单，注意力就不会被太多的外物分散，就能集中精力去做自己喜欢的事。
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很认可一句话：“简单的生活，不是苦行僧式的自虐，而是一种更为人性化的、经济的、环保的、轻松愉悦的生活。”
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我们总是尝试拥有更多，却很少问问自己：拥有这么多之后，我就会幸福吗？
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所谓物质低配，不是让你降低生活质量，而是在这个充满选择与欲望的世界里，学会辨别与舍弃。
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低配物质生活，更能有力地掌控自己的人生。
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有一句话很经典：“当你的能力、地位、资源配不上你的社交野心，你所做的不过是无效社交。”
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生活中，有些人逢人就添加好友，以为这就算拥有了人脉。
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但当你有求于人时，发现自身不厉害，认识再多厉害的人也是徒劳。
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人到了一定年龄，要懂得给自己的圈子做减法，减少能耗，把更多的时间留给自己，留给家人。
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人的精力是有限的。时间在哪里，成就也就在哪里。
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如果把所有的时间都用来去攀附所谓的“牛人圈子”，哪有时间去提升自己呢？
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真正有质量的人生，都不是靠拼命社交建立起来的。
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与其讨好攀附高配的圈子，不如过好自己的人生。
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有人曾说：
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“一个人对外在的物质要求越低，他对内在的要求越高。”
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一个人只活在物质世界里，会一生劳碌、心灵空虚。
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当我们不再追求物质的高配，而是保持宁静的心态，就容易做到灵魂的高配。
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“非淡泊无以明志，非宁静无以致远。”
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淡泊与宁静，是一种宠辱不惊的淡然与豁达，是一种成熟与从容，也是灵魂高配的一种境界。
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到了一定年龄，请过“低配”生活。“低配”不是不思进取，而是张弛有度，不攀不比，不想太多。
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衣服不一定要穿名牌，舒适就好；房子不一定要豪华，干净就好；车子不一定要高档，能代步就好；圈子不一定高端，有三五个知心朋友就好。
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