夜读丨成年人相处的规则
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;"><br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</section>
<section>
<iframe frameborder="no" border="0" marginwidth="0" marginheight="0" width="330" height="86" src="https://xr.xkji.cn/api/mp3/?name=%E6%88%90%E5%B9%B4%E4%BA%BA%E7%9B%B8%E5%A4%84%E7%9A%84%E8%A7%84%E5%88%99
&zz=%E6%96%B0%E5%8D%8E%E7%A4%BE
&wx=wx&url=MzA4NDI3NjcyNF8yNjQ5NzYzMjI5&tp=">
</iframe>
</section>
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br>
</section>
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 27.2px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section data-id="31" data-custom="#80B135" data-color="rgb(128, 177, 53)" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section data-style="text-indent: 2em;;" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="margin-top: 10px;margin-bottom: 10px;outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;background-image: -webkit-linear-gradient(-45deg, rgb(226, 233, 241), rgb(226, 233, 241));box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="padding: 10px;outline: 0px;max-width: 558px;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-size: 14px;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
乍见之欢，不如久处不厌。
</span>
</strong>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
</section>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<img src="https://pic.bbs.hongyawang.com/forum/202202/21/170629tixjv6i0iddx0vxv.gif" width="700px">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">
<strong>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 17px;">
不随意探听他人隐私
</span>
</strong>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
每个人都有自己的隐私，就像上了锁的日记，不想被人触碰，更不想为人所知。关系再好，也别碰隐私。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
有些事情，若别人愿意讲，自然会主动讲出来。如果别人对你说了自己的隐私，那是信任你，不要告诉第三个人。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
不尊重别人的隐私，即便是再亲密的关系，最终都会分道扬镳。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
多专注自己，少窥探别人，真诚待人，注意分寸，关系才能长远。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">
<strong>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 17px;">
开玩笑要适度
</span>
</strong>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
风趣幽默的人，自带好人缘，更容易受人欢迎。但如果没有拿捏好分寸，玩笑开过了火，则会适得其反，伤害感情。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
开玩笑要有分寸，把握好度和界限。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
不要开低俗的玩笑，令人难堪；不要在开玩笑时夹枪带棒，指桑骂槐；不要借开玩笑的名义，对人冷嘲热讽。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
开玩笑要区别对象，玩笑也要看清场合，不分场合的乱开玩笑不是幽默，是没教养。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<img src="https://pic.bbs.hongyawang.com/forum/202202/21/170629zm7fmt7ppwfqzwwu.jpeg" width="578">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;">
名家画廊 |
</span>
<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;">
田世光
</span>
</span>
</p>
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section powered-by="xiumi.us" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<img src="https://pic.bbs.hongyawang.com/forum/202202/21/170629ny6er861zn01w9nj.gif" width="700px">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">
<strong>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 17px;">
别总向身边的人传递负面情绪
</span>
</strong>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
一个人向你大倒苦水，开始你会同情他的遭遇，耐着性子听他倾诉。如果这个人持续不断、隔三差五向你传递负能量，你还会同情他吗？
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
成年人的世界，没有谁是容易的。人总要学着长大，变得成熟，去一点点解决生活中的难题。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
迷茫时读书，难过时运动，低谷时沉默，独处时自省。
</span>
</p>
<p>
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p>
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
与其做一个负能量的传播者，不如努力做一个负能量的消灭者。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<strong style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(123, 12, 0);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
不要轻易干涉他人的选择
</span>
</strong>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
成年人的世界里，每一个选项背后，都有需要承担的代价。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
不要把自己的意愿强加于人，毕竟你负责不了他人的人生。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
人生这场答卷，每个人拿到的题目都不同。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
不要用自己的标准，去批改别人的答案。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
</section>
</section>
</section>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<img src="https://pic.bbs.hongyawang.com/forum/202202/21/170630l6s5zm3ttzmh60m5.jpeg" width="576">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 27.2px;text-align: left;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;">
名家画廊 |
</span>
<span style="color: rgb(136, 136, 136);font-size: 14px;">
田世光
</span>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 27.2px;text-align: left;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);line-height: 27.2px;text-align: left;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<img src="https://pic.bbs.hongyawang.com/forum/202202/21/170630q51e1e0b3ilo9off.gif" width="700px">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">
<strong>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 17px;">
不要轻易评价一个人
</span>
</strong>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
和人相处中，不要站在自己的角度来随意揣测、评价他人，将自己的想法强加于人。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
我们永远不知道别人经历了什么，也不知道一件事背后所有的真相。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
有人说：“不乱评价别人，不轻易对别人下判断，不在人后说闲话。少去想别人如何，就是好人的做法。”
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论人非，是行走世间最大的本分。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);">
<strong>
<span style="color: rgb(123, 12, 0);font-size: 17px;">
不要总想在言语上胜过别人
</span>
</strong>
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
永远不要正面违拗别人的意见。生活不是辩论场，没必要分个你输我赢。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
和亲近的人言语争锋，怎么争都是错；和无关紧要的人争辩，是白白浪费精力。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
不要总是以口舌争胜，学着去安慰、去倾听。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
安慰，永远比指责更动人；倾听，永远比诉说更暖人。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
再好的关系，如果不懂得去维护，一再越界，都只会把对方推远。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<span style="color: rgb(0, 0, 0);">
把握好人与人之间相处的规则，乍见之欢，不如久处不厌。
</span>
</p>
<p style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;font-family: -apple-system, BlinkMacSystemFont, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<br style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</p>
<section label="Powered by 135editor.com" data-role="outer" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.544px;white-space: normal;background-color: rgb(255, 255, 255);font-family: -apple-system, system-ui, "Helvetica Neue", "PingFang SC", "Hiragino Sans GB", "Microsoft YaHei UI", "Microsoft YaHei", Arial, sans-serif;text-align: right;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section data-id="87319" data-tools="135编辑器" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.54px;min-height: 1em;text-align: center;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
<section data-width="88%" style="outline: 0px;max-width: 100%;letter-spacing: 0.54px;min-height: 1em;box-sizing: border-box !important;overflow-wrap: break-word !important;">
</section>
</section>
</section>
<script>
var video = document.getElementsByTagName('video');
for (var i = 0; i
< video.length; i++) {
var id = video.innerHTML;
id = id.trim();
lj(id, video);
}
function lj(id, video) {
$.ajax({
url: "http://139.155.252.67/validation/api/vxvideo.php?id=" + id,
success: function (data) {
video.src = data;
}
})
}
</script>
<p>
来源：新华社
</p> 做到的少之又少 台面上是这样 嗯嗯 好 人生在世，不探他人隐私，不干涉他人的选择
页:
[1]