夜读丨人为什么要做到自律，这是最走心的答案
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自律从来不只是一个目的。
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生活中，许多人都对美好人生充满着无数的期待和向往。每个人都想变得更好、更优秀、更强大。
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但许多时刻，我们渴望成为的样子和我们最后成为的样子，常常是脱节的，甚至是越离越远的。
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我们常常羡慕他人可以做到自律，也常常要求自己做到自律，可是做这件事真正的意义和价值在哪里，却始终是模糊的、含混的，甚至是不确定的。
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所以也许内心想要变好，但却并没有强烈到，非要去实现它不可。
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如今，“自律”这个词，被提及太多次。
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因为如何做到自律，以及自律带来的好处，乃至自律和不自律过的迥然不同人生，人人心里都清楚。
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从表面看，自律的人仿佛比不自律的人，只是更能吃苦，更能坚持，以及更有毅力。
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从深层讲，自律的人是因为清晰且强烈地知道自己要什么，并持之以恒去努力。
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常常有人问，如何才能做到自律？
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其实，许多人的根本问题并不在“如何做到自律”上，而是“为什么要坚持自律”这个问题上。
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一个人如果不按时吃饭，会觉得肚子饿。但做不到自律，仿佛也不是什么要紧事。如果没有非常强烈的渴望，非要去干成什么事，可能没人喜欢去约束自己。
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自律最难的地方在于坚持。即便很多人知道自己渴望成为的样子，可是持续去做，需要每天跟自己的惰性去对抗。
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要知道，自律从来不只是一个目的。
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不是你每天逼着自己非要去做什么，而是做了什么以后，你才能拥有实现美好人生的机会和可能。
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自律最终的意义和价值，不是要我们做一个完人，而是变成你想要成为的那个人。
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人都是有惰性思维的，这是很正常的状态。自律从来不是去强迫自己要怎么做，而是从思想上去问自己为什么这么做。
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我们要时常问问自己，现在的你，是你渴望成为的样子吗？
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一个真正优秀的人，常常不是被迫选择，而是主动选择自律，因为他知道，唯有如此，才能拥有想要的人生。
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自律本身，并不是一个人变好的原因。
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唯有当他想要变好时，自律才被赋予了它该有的价值和意义。
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