洪雅夜读 发表于 2022-1-12 16:26:03

夜读丨成年人最好的社交方式:一半,一半

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      一半是理解,一半是算了。
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    前阵子,朋友跟我说起一件事。
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他和团队加班加点赶出来的方案,被自己的项目经理抢了去。
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朋友满心愤懑,要去找经理讨个说法,却在路过茶水间时,听到经理在小声打电话。抬眼一看,经理正在悄悄抹泪。
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后来朋友才得知,经理家中母亲病了,需要一大笔手术费,他情急之下,才抢了自己的功劳,只为了那笔丰厚的奖金。
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过了一段时间,经理竟然主动找到他,把原属于他的提成,全数还给了他:“兄弟,我对不住你,我现在要这些钱也没什么用了。”
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经理沉默半晌,才哽咽着说,自己的母亲,前段时间,已经因病离世了……
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朋友再看眼前这个曾经意气风发的男人,头发几乎白了一半,整个人仿若霜打过的茄子,蔫下去了半截。
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    朋友说,在那一刻,他想起了自己曾经的黑暗时刻,虽不能达到感同身受,但是内心已全然释怀。
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    一位作家说:“宽容不是一种道德,而是一种基于对世界、人性深刻认识的基础上的了解和体谅。”
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    每个人活在世界上,各有各的心酸,各有各的难处。
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      理解别人,是一种善良,说一声算了,是一份宽容。
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      一半是积极,一半是随缘。
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    曾在网上看过一个问题:“你生命中有过很费心经营,却无疾而终的感情吗?”
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    有个高赞回答说:“不仅是有,而且很多。小时候以为什么事情通过努力都可以得到,长大后才明白,人生聚散,最是难以安排。”
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    人生这条长路,有遇见,就会有离别。
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    不对等的关系,自然经不住时间的考验,选择不同,自然会走向道路的两端。
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    人生是条长长的河,无论我们从哪个时段汇聚,最终会流入不同的河道,走上自己的征程。
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    成年人的世界,一半要积极,一半要随缘。
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    用心经营关系,才能让情谊随时间越发醇厚。失去的朋友,也无须伤怀,要感谢彼此曾经共度的时光。
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      缘来时,珍惜;缘去时,释然。
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      一半是淡然,一半是静默。
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    人们常说,看清一个人,不必翻脸,这并非是隐忍,而是一种智慧。
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    成年人的成熟,一半是淡然接受,一半是学着静默。
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    对我们好的人,尽力回报,用心珍惜。对那些不好的人或事,无须理会,自己默默强大。
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余生,不必将太多人请进生命里,人活到一定年纪,是往回收的,收到最后,三两知己,一杯浅茶。所有的社交,本质都是在经营自己的生活。
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人生路上,有些感情,半近半远;有些伤害,半放半忘。
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关系,总是有远有近;人情,总会有浓有淡。学会看淡得失,远近随缘,爱恨随意。
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陈晨2020520 发表于 2022-1-12 22:09:40

算了是成年人的无奈

汪小汪 发表于 2022-1-13 06:53:19

无奈。。。

家兴房产 发表于 2022-1-13 08:05:52

不是我不小心 发表于 2022-1-14 13:50:14

理解万岁
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