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洪雅夜读 发表于 2022-1-3 13:21:12

夜读丨家人之间：小事不争，大事不责，遇事一起扛，事过不翻账

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家庭是人生最好的庇护所，家庭的温暖，往往决定了一个人生活的幸福程度。
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互相体谅，才能把日子过得和和美美；齐心协力，才能应对生活的风风雨雨。
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一个家庭最好的相处模式，莫过于：小事不争，大事不责，遇事一起扛，事过不翻账。
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俗话说，牙齿和舌头都会有磕磕碰碰的时候，在一起过日子争吵更是在所难免。
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如果凡事要争个高下，论个长短，随便哪一件小事都可能掀起一番矛盾争执。
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      幸福的家庭，不是没有矛盾，而是有着不较劲的智慧。
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有句话说得好：所谓的好关系，都源自一个人的包容和迁就，以及另一个人的适可而止。
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要始终记住，一个家庭中，亲人比道理重要，包容比改造重要，感情比计较重要。
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面对生活中的小事，懂得各退一步，日子才能越过越好。
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遇事不能冷静地去解决问题，只顾得上责备对方，这种沟通方式，在心理学上叫做“异化的沟通方式”。
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当一个人情绪上头的时候，深藏于内心的关心，很有可能变成了脱口而出的责备。
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正确的解决方式是什么呢？
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有人说过这样一段话：
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“在最无助和软弱的时候，在最沮丧和落魄的时候，有家人托起你的下巴，扳直你的脊梁，命令你坚强，并陪伴你左右，共同承受命运。那时候，你们之间的感情除了爱，还有肝胆相照的义气，不离不弃的默契，以及铭心刻骨的恩情。”
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生活中难免有磕磕绊绊，在问题面前的反应，是一段关系的试金石。
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当错误已经发生，后果已经造成，一味地发泄情绪，指责对方，不仅无法挽回损失，而且还容易激化矛盾，让对方更加懊恼。
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一万句“都怪你”，都不如一句“我陪你”。
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      张开双臂拥抱对方，彼此温暖，互相鼓励着走出困境，才是最理智的选择。
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要知道，这世界上从来没有最正确的理，只有最真切的情。
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一位作家曾说：“家是一只小小的船，要载我们穿过那么长的岁月。”
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人生，总有猝不及防的意外。
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      家的意义，就是在风雨来临之际，为我们建起一个避风港。
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在一起互相打气，抱团取暖，福祸同享同担，再大的困难也变得没那么棘手，再难熬的绝境也有转机。
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陈年旧账，就像是“案底”，时不时被人提起，就像是一次次在伤口上撒盐。
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再好的感情，也经不起这样的“攻击”。
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再温柔的爱人，也会在一次次旧事重提后变得面目狰狞。
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其实两个人在一起长久的诀窍，就是别翻旧账。翻了又能怎么样呢？不过是一个更难过一个更恼怒罢了。
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翻旧账解决不了任何问题，反而是每翻一次，感情就多一道裂缝。
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有时候，我们总会把礼貌留给外人，把脾气带给家人，把和气分给别人，把责备全给爱人。
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要知道，家庭不是战场，家人不是敌人。
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愿我们以爱之名学会让步和包容。
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遇小事不计较，遇大事不责难，难事来了一起扛，事情过了就放下。
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唯有如此，才能把家庭经营得温馨红火。
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克里斯的坏品位 发表于 2022-1-3 22:44:37

洪雅夜读都来了，厉害

書香 发表于 2022-1-4 04:19:09

好

汪小汪 发表于 2022-1-4 06:44:12

嗯

雷建军 发表于 2022-1-4 08:43:39

好！我们一起扛！

不是我不小心 发表于 2022-1-4 16:23:29

对呢

不是我不小心 发表于 2022-1-4 16:23:39

好

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