夜读 | 把好情绪留给最爱你的人
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最可靠的后盾是家人。
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亲子之道：夸奖的话说给孩子听。
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实际上，父母夸奖孩子也是一种教育方式，这对孩子的成长非常重要。
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正如一位教育学家所言：“永远不要低估了你的话，对孩子一生的影响力。”
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其实，每个孩子都渴望得到父母的认可和肯定，哪怕到了成年也依旧如此。
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心理学上有一个概念叫“原生自卑”，它主要产生在孩童时期。
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这种自卑感形成的主要原因就是不恰当、不科学的家庭教育。
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一位心理学家提醒说：“未被表达的情绪永远都不会消失，它们只是被活埋了，有朝一日，会以更丑恶的方式爆发出来。”
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父母的赞美，永远是给孩子最好的礼物。
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如果孩子经常被贬低，那童年的不幸只会让他成长的路途充满梦魇。
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经常夸奖孩子的父母，让孩子心里觉得自己被别人认同，给孩子塑造的家庭环境都充满幸福。
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伴侣之道：把好脾气留给爱人。
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有人说，敢发脾气是信任对方的表现。
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所以，有的人在爱自己的人面前，经常用坏脾气伤害对方，可是伤害的次数越多，两人之间就越容易出现隔阂。
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脾气人人都有，拿出来是本能，压下去才是本事。
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如果说，一个人的外在举止代表着他的形象素质，那么他在家里的言行，就决定着这个家庭的氛围。
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把好心情留在家里，对待爱人温柔和善，这样的家才是温馨的港湾。
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有时候很多道理其实大家都知道，却总是做不到。
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抱怨的话可以沉默不说，火爆的脾气可以慢慢地去改，伤人心的话可以绝口不提。
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把好脾气留给爱人，身处这样的家庭，才能更幸福。
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待亲之道：恭敬的态度给父母。
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“百善孝为先”，一个人对待父母的态度，就是家庭的温度。
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父母之恩，做儿女的一辈子也还不完。
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有人总想：等我以后有钱了，一定要好好孝敬父母，让他们过上好日子；等我以后有时间了，一定要经常陪伴父母，让他们享我的福。
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可时光无情，孝顺父母，是我们这一生都不能等的事。
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有的人觉得，关爱父母就是要给他们钱财，保证他们吃饱穿暖。但这只能算是浅层次的。更深层次的爱，应该是用恭敬的态度对待父母。
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正如一位教授所言：“儿女有钱了很容易做到给父母买车、买房，但是最难做到的就是不给父母脸色看。”
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真心爱护父母，应该是和颜悦色地对他们。
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父母，是我们每个人的根。恭敬地对待父母，就是给自己施肥浇水。
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有人说：
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“家是世界上唯一隐藏人类缺点与失败的地方，同时也蕴藏着甜蜜的爱。”
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与孩子之间，减少不必要的训斥，增加一些鼓励和肯定；与爱人之间，减少一些责怪，增加一些理解和体谅；与父母之间，减少不必要的埋怨，自然和睦融洽。
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人这一辈子，最温暖的地方就是家，最可靠的后盾是家人。正所谓“家和万事兴”，家人之间和善，才是家庭走向兴旺的关键。
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<p>
来源：新华社
</p> 家和万事兴
家和万事兴
人这一辈子，最温暖的地方就是家，最可靠的后盾是家人
恭敬的态度给父母
拿出来是本能，压下去才是本事。
把好脾气留给爱人
尽量
和颜悦色，心平气和
好
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