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洪雅夜读 发表于 2021-9-13 17:48:01

夜读 | 不要活在别人眼里，也别活在自己的情绪里

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 情绪就像水，宜疏不宜堵。
 
 
 
 
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人活一世，之所以会感到痛苦，是因为心里装错了东西。在这个世界上，没有人能困住你，只有你能困住自己。

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不活在别人眼里，也别活在自己的情绪里，才是为人处世的大智慧。

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网上有这样一句话：“生活中90%的烦恼，并不是因为事情本身，而是你对这件事情的反应所带来的烦恼。”

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 成熟的人，不会沉溺在自己的情绪里太久。



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有一位作家在打车时，无意间坐了一辆非常有特色的出租车。车里干净整洁，不仅提供可乐、果汁、热咖啡，还有不同的报纸及各电台的广播节目单。

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他刚上车，司机就递给他一张精美的卡片。

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卡片上写着：在友好的氛围中，将我的客人最快捷、最安全、最省钱地送达目的地。

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作家好奇地问司机：“为什么别的出租车司机都是抱怨堵车，抱怨收入，而你却这么喜悦，还提供这么周全的服务呢？”

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司机回答道：“其实，刚开始的时候，我像其他人一样，经常抱怨。直到有一天，我偶然在广播里听到‘如果停止日常生活中的抱怨，能让任何人走向成功’。所以，我决定改变自己。”

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 生而为人，有情绪是本能，不被情绪牵制才是本事。



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情绪就像水，宜疏不宜堵。改变自己的心态，才不会让负能量在我们心中堆积。

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 名家画廊

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 俞致贞
 



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不要活在自己的认知中。不接触新事物，不打破自己认知的人，会渐渐在自己的圈子内故步自封。

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曾看到一个寓言： 

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一位商人看到沿街乞讨的乞丐，想改变一个乞丐的命运，他问乞丐：“假如我给你1000元钱，你如何用它？” 

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乞丐马上回答说：“我可以买一部手机呀！这样我就可以用手机同各个地区联系，哪里人多，就去哪里乞讨。”

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商人很失望，又问：“假如我给你10万元呢？” 

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乞丐说：“那我可以买一部车，这样我以后出去乞讨就方便多了。”

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商人很无奈说：“假如我给你1000万元呢？” 

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乞丐激动地说：“我可以把这个城市最繁华的地区买下来！” 

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商人略感欣慰。 
 

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这时乞丐突然补充一句：“到那时，我可以把领地里的其他乞丐全部撵走，不让他们抢我的饭碗。” 

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最后，商人无奈地走了。 

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 很多时候，真正限制一个人的，不是经济上的贫穷，而是认知上的。认知贫困，是一个人最大的贫困。



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乞丐的认知，永远停留在乞丐上。所以，即便拥有1000万元，他的命运还是被框在了“如何乞讨”上。

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人生在世，世事无常，如果太固执就容易走进死胡同。想要改变，必须突破自己的认知局限，否则就会白白错过大好机会。

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 俞致贞
 



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 何必纠结过往，只要放下便是晴天。人生的无限可能，往往就藏在每一次清零之后。



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有句话说得好：“如果你不给自己烦恼，别人也永远不可能给你烦恼。”有时候不是烦恼选择了人，而是人主动选择了烦恼。

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人要想走远路，必须看淡来路，才能轻松上路。
 

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常言道，有心者有所累，无心者无所谓。不活在纠结中的人，才能大步迈向未来。

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 每个人大脑中都有思想牢笼，这座牢笼由经验打造，牢不可破。真正成熟的人，不会活在自己情绪和过去的经验当中，也不会活在一个狭隘的认知里。



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从今天起，不断地学习和提升自己，总有一天会打开这座思想的樊笼。

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那天，你便不再是从前的自己。

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六叔的头号粉丝 发表于 2021-9-13 21:58:25

活在了自己的情绪里

我命油我不油天 发表于 2021-9-13 21:58:43

你便不再是从前的自己

陈晨2020520 发表于 2021-9-13 23:14:15

讲的有道理

書香发表于 2021-9-14 00:06:33

苹果梅 发表于 2021-9-14 08:46:27

容易活在过往，怀念美好和苦楚。特别，被欺辱被冤屈却无处申冤的痛，更让人难以走出。
所以，愿阳光普照，处处温馨。

晩风发表于 2021-9-14 11:17:48

我想活得更洒脱

不是我不小心 发表于 2021-9-15 13:40:32

对头

不是我不小心 发表于 2021-9-15 13:40:43

足这样

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